What is the size of Your Shoes?

I just suddenly remember one of my teacher back at school. Dr.Kalervo Aromaki and his lesson.
that is one of the best class i ever took during my college time....

The lesson that i learn from that class will never be forgotten...

What is the size of your shoes?

I dont ask for the literal size of the shoe, but rather metaphorical one....

we often judge people from the shoe that we wear instead of those people's shoes.

what do i mean by that?

We often telling those who are fat to be slim but we never feel how does it mean by being fat

We often telling those who smokes from the point of view of someone who never addicted to cigarettes

We often telling those who are drinking to stop drinking while ourselves never know how much pain that people have as the reason they drink

Im not trying to say that you should be trying all those things before giving your thought for them but rather trying to see things from their point of view

If we want to counsel those people to stop smoking, try to see beyond that addiction and try to know what drives them to do so

if we want to counsel those people to stop drinking, try to see beyond their alcoholic behavior and see what triggers them to do so

Try to wear an addict shoes to know what what addict feel

try to wear some rape victim body to know how it feel to be raped

before you can do so, stop trying to convince people to stop their bad habit

I just share some flier this afternoon....
i observed people and i reflect on a question that nobody ask....

"how cold human hard can be?"

this afternoon that question has been answered.

I found that we as human, especially those who live in modern, first world country, has the coldest heart ever.

Despite all the comfort, beauty, and privileges that we have...its actually make our heart become colder. The more privilege, the more we become selfish.

I realize that the most coldest place, is at people who have more in life. I know this argument is not 100% but yet, i cannot deny also my own argument based on my experience.

People that accept my tract was basically those who appear less appealing. But those who wear more expensive clothes, not even look at me at all.


"i have everything in my life, why do i need to care about you?"

sadly this is the concept that affect many people......

Therefore i can say once again, that in this world there are only two religion, Materialism and Individualism

The place that i stay now is very hot, i was sweating profusely....

but i found that many heart of the people are freezing with no sense of love anymore....

How cold human heart can be? you can measure it here....at my place....

The Meaning of Service

Once again i need to write the beauty of service....

Service is one of the greatest treasure that most people nowaday take it for granted.
in the word where service is basically just part of business commodities, people are "expected" to give their service.
However, the best service actually are those which are given free
Because for every service, come sacrifice....